This article contains spoilers from the November 6 episode. Golden Bachelorette.

The Mansion Men returned to tell all on Wednesday, November 6, for what was probably the least dramatic Men Tell All in Bachelor Nation history.

After taking a look at the friendship that has formed between them Joan Vassos‘ 24 suitors and reliving the iconic Chippendales group historyMichael announced this just before he arrived Golden BacheloretteHe was diagnosed with cancer. However, the 65-year-old retired banking CEO continued the show with the insistence of his children and the approval of his doctor.

“Even though it was a really terrible, difficult year, it turned out to be a great year because I incorporated this amazing experience,” Michael said. “And I’ll be fine. Caught early. I want to thank this great group of guys and I want to thank Joan because I’m truly grateful for this experience. It came at just the right time for me.”

CHARLES L. TAKES MISSION

After Mark and Jonathan got into the hot seat with the presenter, who later revealed he had met someone special Jesse PalmerIt’s Charles L.’s turn. First, the 46-year-old answered what it feels like to be a “pop culture icon,” as Jesse puts it.

“This is a surprise. “I was so excited,” said Charles L., 66.

Jesse also asked Charles L. how his hair turned from gray to black. “I think it’s because of the food I eat while I’m away,” the retired financial analyst joked.

Charles L. also suggested another explanation. “I’d never been on TV before, and Jesse, I’m sorry, I didn’t even quite know your name before,” he said. “Don’t be hard on me, you know.”

Jesse responded: “I’ll just ignore it since you’re famous now.”

On a more serious note, Charles L. told Jesse he felt ready to date again.

“I was worried, I don’t know what my girls would think of me dating again,” Charles L. said. “This is really worrying for me and I also wasn’t sure what my relatives would think of me because of my cultural background. But this worry disappeared with the support I received and the love I received from my daughter, family and relatives. So I would use the world, my body was lighter than before, and hopefully one day I would meet that lucky person.”

A woman in the studio audience shouted to Charles L.: “We think you should be our next audience member. Gold License!”

PASCAL TEARS HIS WALLS

Before Pascal took the podium, the Los Angeles Gay Men’s Choir sang the song Mansion Men, written by Gil.

Later, Pascal, 69, reflected on his choice of dating before entering the Fantasy Suite with Joan. “It was a very difficult decision I had to make,” he said. “It felt like if there had been more time I could have been there, but I wasn’t there at the time.”

The salon owner added that he hoped he “did no harm” to Joan, 61. “That wasn’t my intention,” Pascal said. “And she’s such a wonderful woman, and you know, I’m watching now and I see her saying that she’s not worthy of being loved; He is completely wrong. I think he is worth loving, but I couldn’t give him what he was looking for at the time. I was too protected.

Pascal felt that the time he spent with Joan helped him realize “where I am at the moment.” “I’m ready to tear down my walls,” he said.

When Joan appeared on stage, Pascal told her: “You are an incredible woman and I hope that with my departure you can find the right person for yourself.”

The mother of four admitted that she sees a future with Pascal. “I dreamed of a life with you, and I know the commitment ceremony in Tahiti was very uncomfortable for you, and I thought maybe we could work something out either way in the Fantasy suites, but you had already made up your mind. You were so kind, and I want the best for you. I want you to be happy.” ”

Joan told the rest of her exes that she wanted to “make friends” with all of them.

She also explained that her season ended only with Chock and Guy leaving the race for her heart. “It was emotional and there were a lot of tears,” he said on Men Tell All. “But I will tell you that some of them were tears of joy.”

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Golden Bachelorette It airs Wednesdays at 8pm ET on ABC.