love is blind star marissa george He knew he was dropping a bomb when he announced this him and his ex-fiancée Ramses Prashad They bonded after calling off their engagement.

“I’m sorry. Who hasn’t slept with their ex after a bad breakup?” 32-year-old Marissa told We The reunion began airing a few days after Wednesday, October 30th. “We obviously had real feelings for each other. We broke up and hooked up a few times. I never intended to say that (during the reunion), but I’ll always just be myself and you see it right there – I don’t stop to think about the image and what people will think, “I’m not the only one who does this.”

The revelation came while talking to Marissa Nick Dorka about its division from Hannah Jiles Nick stated that Hannah texted him after their breakup.

“I was trying to tell Nick that just because he’s a mess doesn’t mean he wants to be with you!” he continued. “Ramses and I don’t want to be together. And yet we hooked up a few times. It wasn’t pretty, it wasn’t great, and it wasn’t healthy, but it was still that way.”

Marissa clarified that she and Ramses were “friends with benefits” or nothing serious. ended their relationship.

“I would be in D.C., somewhere, getting drunk — drinking way more than I should have — and I would get drunk (on him) and one thing would lead to another,” Marissa said. “It only happened a few times. We both knew it wasn’t good for us because I still had very strong feelings and he had strong feelings too, regardless of whether he wanted to be in a relationship or not.”

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Another important moment of the meeting was when Marissa’s mother said, vanessaShe confronted Ramses after he made it clear when they met that he would not be happy if he harmed her daughter.

“I know brunch seems difficult when they first meet; conversations happen off camera that you can’t see, (but) it comes out in a certain way,” Marissa said. We of his stubborn mother. “But at the same time, my mother was really supportive of Ramses and I. She saw, at least from my perspective, how much we loved each other. I think she said that when we got back together, she went and tried to talk to him and said, ‘Hey, you guys come and work this out. You both love each other. .That’s obvious.’ “I was shocked that he would do that there, but he knew how much I loved him and wanted it to work.”

However, Marissa added that she wished her mother “wouldn’t use violence when talking about Ramses” and made a “disclaimer” that violence was not part of her childhood. “I wish she would have apologized for her violent comments,” he said, referencing Vanessa’s mention of “Ramses punching her in the throat.”

As for how Vanessa feels now? “I think he’s indifferent,” Marissa said. “He’s so happy that he and I are gone now and that I no longer have deep feelings for him. I think that’s really the hardest part.”

Season 7 of Love Is Blind is currently airing. Keep scrolling for more answers from Marissa:

We: What were your expectations going into the meeting?
MG: I was very nervous. I had just seen the breakup scene, so I went there and tried to keep everything together. ‘Hey, it’s been a year, Ramses and I have been through it all. I don’t hold any hatred towards anyone, but when I get there there is a lot of hatred. I watched (The Breakup) 12 hours ago, so it was really hard to get that out.

We: Ramses doubled down when you said he felt “overwhelmed” by you during the reunion. How did it feel to hear it again?
MG: It’s still hard to hear a sentence like ‘Marissa would make me so tired and overwhelmed.’ But I’ve talked to him extensively, I know what he means by that. I don’t like him. You said you fell in love with me for my energy. But I don’t blame him. I can be many things. I’m not everyone’s cup of tea and that was obvious. That’s why it’s hard to hear. I wish it had been something else (what caused us to break up), but what are you going to do?

We: Are you grateful he didn’t end things at a wedding?
MG: Ramses would never take me to the altar and say no. He knew this would be very bad. We talked about this. I wouldn’t do that to him either. And the main thing is to go to the altar and decide whether to say yes or no, but when you are so sure, it is best to do it when you feel it.

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We: Do you think he should have done this sooner or did it really take until that day and that conversation?
MG: Of course, it took me a while to get to the point where I wished he had done this sooner. But I think Ramses was working through his emotions, and his biggest regret, which he always said, was that he wished he’d talked about some of the things he felt sooner. I wouldn’t wish him to leave me sooner. I wish he had brought this up to me sooner and said, ‘Hey, these are some things.’ “Then I can think, ‘Oh yeah, these are either things I can change or things I can’t change.'”

We: Did conversations about your past service in the military play a role in your separation?
MG: Talks about military service had no effect on our separation. I think it’s okay to be with a partner who has different views. He seems to be judging me harshly. And I think he was involved in that conversation, too; Not on purpose, but it was. However, no one can see the rest of the conversation. I know Ramses and I aren’t the first couple to have a conversation where we disagree, and we’ve both said some not-so-nice things to each other. Now, would I be with a partner who had such strong views against the military? Probably not, no. This doesn’t make any sense to me. But at the time, it wasn’t something we thought was fatal to our relationship. We felt like we respected each other’s differences, and ultimately he was supportive of my background.

We: What about your disagreement about birth control? I felt like you had more to say in the meeting.
MG: I guess after all Ramses said what he said in those speeches. And no matter how it looks, it was. I always wanted to explain that he never directly pushed me into birth control. He wasn’t saying we should. And actually I was the one who said, ‘I would go for birth control, not hormonal birth control.’ That’s why you hear me say, “I need to talk to my doctor.” I really don’t want to continue but I want to look at my options because even if I don’t want to resort to birth control I should have the right to look at my options. For example, let me make this decision.’ And he was completely open to it. We talked about vasectomy. Nobody knows this; We talked about investigating this in the long term.

We: So when he says he’s not trying to present you with any ultimatums, do you agree?
MG: No, this wasn’t an ultimatum. It was a shocking speech, but not an ultimatum. Any two people coming together who don’t know each other that well will have to have tough conversations and sometimes you won’t be able to say the right thing or have a bad perspective. It’s just a relationship, it won’t (always) look pretty.

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We: Overall, I felt like there was a disconnect about physical intimacy and conversations about how much he needs and how tired you are after a long day. But from your perspective, was this a major deal breaker, or were there differences between you, or did the cameras catch you on an off day?
MG: The cameras caught us at the wrong time. Look, that conversation made me very angry. It’s obvious that I’m angry. And I said, ‘What are you talking about? We are very sincere.’ It wasn’t just about sexual intercourse, it was about all kinds of love. So when we talked about the “making love” thing, she just wanted to know what that would look like. I hated that we had this conversation. I didn’t think it was fair because I wasn’t feeling well and all that. But in the end, this was the conversation we had. And at the time, I didn’t see it as a big breaking point. But when you look back, when you look from the outside, when you are inside, you see everything very differently. There’s a lot of emotion and I’m very quiet in that scene, just trying to figure things out in my head.

I have an autoimmune disease. I deal with flare-ups and rheumatoid arthritis. I have ADHD. I’ve had this my whole life. I’m very loud about it and sometimes I get overly excited, and when we talk about the making love thing – sometimes when we’re late or there’s too much going on, she’ll say, ‘Can’t you? can you rub me? You can put your hand there, that’s okay, but don’t rub me in those moments.’ Medical issues are very sensitive for me. So when we’re talking about intimacy, medical conditions come into play and I always worry: ‘Will the partner I’m with be okay with me having flare-ups, not wanting to be intimate, and struggling throughout my week? before starting your menstrual cycle? This is a real concern for many women.

We: Do you think Ramses is the type of man who would be a supportive partner in moments like these?
MG: I think he will try, yes. I think he will try to be as supportive a partner as he can. What I learned has to do with the level at which your partner is generally able to cope emotionally, physically, or whatever. So if he was dealing with his own emotions and was easily overwhelmed, he was already overwhelmed by me. I don’t know if my flare-ups and things like that would be a problem for him. He would have tried. … He’s not a malicious person. He’s not perfect, like me, and you see real people having real conversations and trying to decide if they’re going to spend the rest of their lives together. So of course it won’t always look great.

We: So, if you had to pinpoint it, what was the real thing that made you unable to work?
MG: I’m here for commitment – I’ll stay committed. I will work with you and try to improve. And Ramses has a little less tolerance because he’s been married before, and (he thinks), if I’m not feeling this, I’m not feeling this. I think he runs a little easier than me. I don’t know if that’s a bad thing or a good thing, but ultimately I think that’s our mismatch. I am ready to say that we will endure. We will get through this and I will accept you with all your flaws. And I think it’s very conditional for him. There are conditions there.