A bride revealed during the rehearsal dinner that her sister-in-law did not invite her mother to her wedding.

On Thursday, November 14, the user wrote: reddit She said her husband’s brother was having problems with his wife, which caused her sister-in-law’s mother to get involved.

“My (33F) husband’s (35A) brother’s wife was talking about my husband and saying really inappropriate things at our rehearsal dinner,” the woman wrote on the website. “That night was causing a lot of drama and my friends kept coming over to tell me what was going on.”

She added: “After my sister-in-law caused all this drama, her mother had the courage to come to me and tell me I should stop causing all this drama.”

The bride told me why her sister-in-law’s mother asked “I hate your daughter so I do” and then looked me up and down, said my outfit was cute, smiled and walked away. ”

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The user later recalled seeing the woman, her boyfriend, and her daughter talking together and then glaring at him.

“This made me realize that this wasn’t the atmosphere I wanted for our wedding,” she continued. “My husband texted his parents telling them what had happened and they told us we had to uninvite them both and that they would support us.”

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The bride added that they were “trying to keep the peace” by keeping her sister-in-law on the guest list while giving up on inviting the mother.

But four days after the bride and groom returned home from the wedding celebrations, the husband found a message from his sister-in-law’s mother asking for a refund for the money he spent on the wedding.

The bride said the mother was “talking about me and what a —- I was for making sure she wasn’t invited to the wedding we were going to when she was already there.” So am I a —–?”

Looking at the comments section, many readers sided with the bride over the sister-in-law’s mother.

“SIL’s mom was lucky to be invited to line 1; complaining about the groom and trying to teach the bride a lesson?!? Yes and no. Definitely kick her to the curb,” one person commented.

Another added: “He wouldn’t be wasting his money if he didn’t act like a jerk.” The third said: “He deserved to be fired.” he said.