Theresa Nist Sheds new light on her explosive divorce Gerry Turner.

Couple – meeting and I got engaged Gold License last year and after get married live In January — Divorced in April after just three months of marriageIt shocked Bachelor Nation fans. Now, Nist, 71, reveals distance wasn’t the only factor that led to their split.

Turner, 72, lives in Indiana and Nist lives in New Jersey, and when they announced their divorce, they said distance was an issue because they were both “very attached” to their families, which led to difficulty with the choice. a place to live.

In the November 5 episode Ben Higgins And Ashley Iaconettipodcast, Almost FamousNist was asked if distance was really the reason behind her breakup with Turner, and she admitted: “You can’t really get to know someone in four weeks. I’m just going to say that.”

“I don’t want to say any more than that,” he continued, but acknowledged that “it wasn’t just a matter of location” that led to their divorce.

Nist also told a story on the podcast about: A disagreement with Turner during one of his visits to Indiana.

“So we set off from the airport and it took about three hours and we’re approaching Gerry’s house,” he recalled. “So I see this open land – I don’t see crops, I just think it’s flat land – and I think, ‘Wow, you could build townhouses there!’ That’s all I said and Gerry said: ‘Oh, so you want to take the farmer’s land away from him?’ “Note to self, don’t say that again,” I say.

Nist said his comment sparked a larger conversation about the couple’s differing views on land, as Turner allegedly became defensive about protected farmland in the Midwest, and that wasn’t his intention.

Nist also admitted that their original plan was to move to Charleston, South Carolina. He said they “looked at houses virtually” because they were still living apart and Nist was “still working full time,” but they “never got to the point of finding one.”

He later claimed that Turner “came up with the idea of ​​six weeks there and six weeks there,” but Nist “really wanted our house to be together.”

“I was willing to move. I wanted to have a big house where our family could visit us,” she said. “That was my idea because we agreed on it.”

“And I think he loves his home, and I don’t blame him. He loves where he lives, and… I want him to be happy,” she continued, but the plan they agreed on “has changed.”

“That’s not what we discussed. We never discussed six weeks here, six weeks there,” he added.

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previous couple They settled their divorce in June after Turner filed suit within hours of divorce announcement It was published Good Morning America.

Nist had taken his time before Gold License “one of the most incredible experiences of my life” and “something I never expected to happen at this point in my life,” she wrote on her first Instagram account. to post After the divorce news

“I really thought this would last forever.he wrote. “It turns out that even at 70 you don’t know everything. Sometimes things don’t go as you planned, and that’s okay.”